Couples Coaching

Couples work

What does a couple session look like?

Whether you're in a monogamous or in a consensually non-monogamous relationship, it is helpful to learn how to cultivate self love and compassion (make space for yourself as an individual, with your own needs, desires and boundaries), and at the same time, nurture deeper intimacy (make space for the relationship and the needs, desires and boundaries of the other). These two things are equally important, and my practice will help you be a champion for both.

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If you come in as a couple you'll learn a whole set of communication skills that will allow you both to move vulnerably through a conflict and emerge from it with profound empathy and compassion for each other.

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You'll master the art of repairing after a conflict so that both of you will feel heard and seen, no matter how hurt and disappointed, without resorting to blaming and shaming.

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We'll work on eroticism and passion, and learn what each of you seeks in sex. Uncovering our partner's deepest desires doesn't mean we're obliged to grant them exactly that, but it offers us better knowledge of the person we chose to spend part of our life-path with.

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Your relationship will become a place of growth, where passion, compassion and empathy are cultivated and nurtured.

The quality of your relationship impacts the quality of your life.

Build a resilient relationship

• Develop secure attachment and build a healthy, long-lasting relationship.

• Understand and communicate your needs, desires and boundaries.

• Learn to repair and resolve underlying resentment and tension.

• Understand each other’s love languages and attachment styles.

• Develop communication skills for discussing sensitive topics without blame and shame.

• Navigate non-monogamy or other relationship structures.

• Reconnect after major life changes such as children, grief, or trauma.

• Rebuild trust after infidelity.

Experience more pleasure together

• Reawaken desire and intimacy in a sexless relationships.

• Bridge the gap between different levels of desire.

• Expand your sexual menu and bring novelty and playfulness into the bedroom.

• Explore your fantasies with each other.

• Try new things like BDSM, role play and more while ensuring you both feel safe and seen.

• Become a better lover to each other, build confidence and learn new lovemaking skills.

• Work together through sexual challenges such as low libido, pain during sex, erectile dysfunctions, premature ejaculation, difficulty to orgasm and other issues.

Get In Touch

Reach out to explore how we can enhance your intimacy and relationships together. Let's connect!

"Lucia's coaching transformed my relationship. Her empathetic approach and deep understanding of intimacy helped us reconnect on a profound level. Highly recommend her services!"

Emily R.